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An Ho H needs to start with what has been brought forward from their Ti H partners Ti H List and communication during daily conversations and the Sit Down Discussions.
During a Sit DD, the Ho H also explains what other expectations they have and the fair path of consequences referred to as the Progression of Discipline.
In the beginning it is absolutely acceptable to include some of your own rules to follow.
If you decide as a couple to bring anything like that later, that's up to you. Other then the Ho H Rules, the Ti H keeping the communication tools up to date will be very important moving forward.
You can always decide afterward where you feel it fits best, or discuss it with your Ti H during the Sit DD and then make a final decision.
Important Note: Begin patiently from goals brought up by the Ti H through their Ti H List and communication during Sit Down Discussions.
During a Sit DD, while the Ti H is explaining what goal they would like your help attaining, make a note where you believe this would fit into the Ho H Rules.
If there's more then one area that is fine at first.
We are the leader and final decision maker, but we are also present, committed and active partners in a very real relationship. I'm not suggesting that nothing on the Ho H Rules comes directly from the Ho H, but keep it clear and defined.