Intj dating enfp
Within 30 seconds I had tapped into my inner wisdom and felt a deep emotional shift inside my heart.
Your mind is going to want to jump to other things. Slowing down and being deeply introspective is one of the most important things you can do.
An ENFP might say something like, “I know I’m not a bad person, but I look around and I seem to be the only one I know who is in touch with this heart darkness.
Maybe I really am bad or wrong at the core of my identity.”The pressure of needing to have it all together in order to truly feel as if I’m not being hypocritical when I “champion” others, while simultaneously feeling as if I am always a giant, clumsy, unreliable, immature, and inconsistent hot mess can sometimes feel like too strong of a burden.
Cut yourself some slack and realize that it’s just going to happen. The enemy of Authenticity is frenetic, thoughtless activity. Sometimes you may feel even more indecisive at first.
You will make decisions and commit to things that you find out later were not in alignment for you. Authenticity requires time, space and introspection. But given time and practice – Authenticity will increase the quality of your decisions, ensuring you only commit to things you actually believe in.
And most ENFPs realize they can be a little bit like a “bull in a China shop” and bump against social norms, beliefs or personal boundaries of others.