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It can be very hard, especially at the beginning of a relationship,to leave someone you really care for, even love because he/she has a drinking problem.It is easy to kid yourself and say that it is just a phase they are going through and that they will stop drinking. The active alcoholic will never stop drinking unless he or she wants to, no matter how much they profess their love to you.Trying to help an unwilling alcoholic will only enable them to fall further into their alcoholic abyss.All you can do is inform them about alcoholism (why not direct them to the alcoholism guide), tell them how you feel about their drinking and then let them do what they will with the information.There are millions of kind, whole and addiction-free men in the world. You’ve met someone you really like, they are intelligent and charming.
Read codependency in relationships for more on this form of behavior.One or more of their family were drink dependent and had to be looked after.The serial dater was the one who looked after the alcoholic in their family.In my case, there were months of lying about his sobriety when I just wasn’t sure whether he was drinking or not.
Had I begun the list sooner, instead of listening to the words I so wanted to believe, I would have saved myself at least a year of heartbreak.
These signs do not necessarily mean your dating an alcoholic but they are indicators that he/she most definitely has a problem with drinking and may well be alcohol dependent. Getting involved with an alcoholic will always end in tears.